Relationships and Clothes: His and Hers

Most couples I have met over the years share closet space in one way or another. He has one part of the walk-in or built-in closet, she has the other part.  So far, I haven't met anyone who was excited or enthusiastic about the other person's clothes. Usually, conversations or showings with women were accompanied by a sigh, facial expression of resignation and by judgments. Conclusion: sharing a closet is not very desirable.  Also, if the couple has completely different closets, women often feel burdened by the amount and kind of clothing their partners store in their closets.  Men don't seem to have that much discomfort with their woman's clothing. I would like to know more about what men are thinking in regards to that…Space has to be negotiated in any relationship and appearance and energy (of the clothes) as well to avoid a build-up of resentments.